Happy Birthday

It’s 24th January!!! Woo Woo… Well. Celebrated this year birthday with my new friends from City Harvest KL, a group of dynamic and cool youngster, well… I’m waiting for an official confirmation as part of this group. Wonder how long more for me???

The whole group consist of 8 of us gather at Malacca on Friday night (22/01) and plan to visit the historic sites on Saturday (23/01) by enjoying the local delicacies such as Chicken rice ball, Asam Laksa, Cendol, and Satay Celup.

We visited various historical sites around Jonker Street, Christ Church, we walk all the way till Pahlawan Square, till Menara Taming Sari (which closed for maintenance). We snapped lots of photos which available on facebook soon.

Although it’s one day before birthday, they celebrated by giving me really a surprise, although just a small piece of cake, but it consists of all their joys, laughter, and for me, lots of happiness.

Stepping into 2010, the greatest harvest that I have is to know all these brothers such as Nickey (leader), Kin Wai, Jeffrey, Hong Kiet, Derrick, and sisters such as Joyce, Monica and Karin. By looking their faces, it really brings me back to those happy moments when I’m still searching for my life purposes in Singapore.

By moving back to Msia in August last year, I have made my 2nd most crucial decision. 1st is to move to Spore in 2000 and now 2nd move back to Msia in 2009, the only purpose is to find my way out in searching for a better future, better life and better prospect. Some how, I managed to achieve most of the goals but by paying with a high price. I get to know friends from both sides, but at the end I’m not able to stand besides them. Somehow, I felt that I have lost them. Yup, know them but lost them. That’s why in some other way, I felt that I’m really alone and other people also able of seeing it. The bondage of friendships between them are merely so-so.

Now, by knowing them, I planned to gain back myself, spend more time with them, spend more time with my family members by appreciate every precious moments that we are able to be together. I’ve planned not to move anymore in this shortest period of time.

I thank God by giving me this opportunity to live in this period of time, though I’m longer a teenager, but I’m able to live every moment, every day with a young heart. 2010 will be indeed a breakthrough year for me and also to all of us.

I’m really happy right now, thank God and really blessed because I’ve been following Him. I’ll always mindful of these blessings that I have and also to the rest.

Happy Birthday!

Happy New Year - Happy Bday - New Year Resolutions

Waited for so long to upload my blog in this most significant day, Jan. 24. Stepping into 2010, maybe wonderful things had happened and all things seem going quite smooth some how, this has to thank many peoples, especially to my Lord. Trying to claim myself down over some uncertainties and gloomy situations, I believed He had indeed sending many angles in helping and guiding me.

My company, our first Msia conference had indeed heating almost 74% sales target so far, adding on those small small sales, I think we can hand-in a good result by end of this month. Hope that February is able to achieve the same target.

On my relationship, still single and available, but really so dummy cause don’t know how to sweet talk to gals. Sigh. Guess the Lord won’t send ‘Ave’ to me so soon. So, perseverance and commitment on what am I doing now is the most important one.

On my spiritual life, it’s so wonderful that able to add myself into a cell group that I’ve long waited. It’s not very huge size in numbers, but the relationship between the cg is so bounded and blend so stronger together. I decided not to look into other cg but planted myself into this extremely cute cell group.

So from Jan24 2010 to Jan24 2011, my top 10 resolutions are:
1. Info Resources – 700K for 2010, 1M in 2011
2. Info Resources – Get more organize
3. Health – Gain weight, restart my badminton session
4. Health – Watch my diet, lacking of calcium
5. Spiritual – Finish reading new testaments. Hahaha
6. Wealth – Able to save up to buying a car by my own
7. Travels cum business – Concurring the northern and southern part
8. Friends – Able to help, to bless friends who in need
9. Time – Dun waste time, you lazy bum, always tired, sleep early laa
10. Family – Spend more time with them

Lord, help me in achieving all these goals for this coming 365days. Putting all these wishes and visions into your holly hands. Amen.

House Warming & Christmas BBQ

After 4 months of settling down in Sunway, and in conjunction with Christmas, we decide to have an open house barbeque at our Sunway PJS 10 house. This will be the very first house gathering since moving here.

I need to thank specially for TP and CJ for their help in early morning till late night, for accompanying me to the super mart, just imaging that without you two, I think lots of think can’t be done so easily. I really thanks for all those who supported this house warming, by preparing food items, gifts and also helping in setting up the whole party.

Seriously, in many times, during this party, I try myself hard to capture all the important moments whenever there’s an events. Just that this house warming plus Christmas BBQ, I can saw the laughers, the helping hand, the joke, the gossip, the 挑拨离间, the ‘glued-couple’, the BBQ smiles, the babies noises and many others.

These wont happen or take place if there’s aren’t anyone that the courage in organizing or plan for it. It is a tough task I would say, but along the way, I so believed and it really happen, the Friends will come by and help me. Thanks yaa…

To those who supported strongly for the party, I thank from the deepest of mine heart. 谢谢!
Till we meet again next year.

Wishing you all Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year.

两肋插刀VS两粒插刀 & 朋友

当我在Facebook 看到这一段 “一个朋友的婚礼，可以体会多年的友情。看他们玩得疯颠，画面不雅，但蛮感动的。这就是超越十年的感情！真好” 它让我想起朋友的重要性。

对我而言朋友是金,朋友是银,朋友是阳光,朋友是月亮.朋友是星星.朋友是在你走向黑岸的时候，为你点亮明灯的那个人.朋友不会因为你现在处于困难时期，而离你远去的人.朋友不会因为你处在人生低谷的时刻而抛弃你的人.

我喜欢与朋友相处,我喜欢与朋友结交， 我喜欢与朋友做心与心的交流，我希望与朋友做真 心的交往.真正的朋友不会人云亦云，不会在你受伤的伤口上再洒上一把盐的人.朋友不会因为小人对你的栽赃,而远离你的人，而是在这个时候，伸出援助的手来关心你，关怀你的人. 真正的朋友不会见利忘义.不会随风倒,不会对有用的人就阿虞奉承,对无用的人就一脚踢开的人.真正的朋友不会因为一点私利,就把朋友的情谊抛开了一边.
真正的朋友不会有私心的,他会在你需要帮助的时候，不顾一切的对你呵护的人，他会一直对你最忠诚的人，他会承诺你们以前的一言一行,不会因为你暂时的不顺利,而把你忘掉的人.

真正的朋友是有道德的,在你有困难的时候，他不会对你施加任何的压力,对你施加让你喘不 过气的做法的.

真正的朋友会是理智的，会是有头脑的.他不会看到你此时的不顺,他不会是袖 手旁观的.他会在背地里解劝你，他会私下里与你交流,他绝对不会把对你看法直接说给别人 的听的.也就是说,他会给你留面子的.

真正的朋友可以为朋友两肋插刀,为朋友可以呼风唤雨,为朋友可以是阳光般的心情,会是对你百般呵护. 谁的处世都有自己的方法，你要求别人这样做,也不能强求人家非要按照你的方法来做，何况父母也没有这样要求的，何况你是一个外人啊，谁也不可能把自己的方法强加于别人的头上.所以友谊和与朋友的交往更不要强加于人家.

为人处世你有你的想法，你的想法别人也不一定接受的，所以与朋友交往上,不能千篇一律的，你有你的方法，我有我的追求.

结交朋友要靠诚心和真心，结交朋友要靠自己的为人,是真朋友不会因为你有难处的时候，离开你，不是你的真正的朋友,即使在你最困难的时候，离开了你，你也不必懊恼，因为你可以认清了什么是真正的朋友，在与朋友交往的问题上，要多结交朋友，在朋友最需要你的时候，你不要袖手旁观,不要对朋友远离,这样的朋友才是真正的朋友.

我喜欢真正的朋友，我喜欢与真正的朋友结交，这是我一贯的原则,结交朋友在你最关键的时候，才会识破什么是最真正的朋友,什么是最真正的友谊. 友谊是一个人的需要的 ,友谊是一个人必须的，友谊是一个人向往的，友谊是一个人在人的 一生中不可缺少的.我们都渴望友谊.我们都珍视友谊.

朋友是真诚的，朋友是真心的．有朋友的人生是幸福的人生．

221109 Gathering with HongYaw 方曜！欢迎回家！

Thank to our brother HongYaw, backed from Singapore. So, have to call a gathering at McD (The upmost famous gathering venue). It’s really difficult in gather as much ppl as possible, for today’s gathering, we already have growing numbers, some new member too.

There’s many jokes, laughers, serious issues talks about, some more 红炸弹 from ZhanX, and also the hottest issue in town, my latest hair cut. Lol….. you surely wont believing it. Pls send me your comments than. Dun worry, many ppl had take it as debating topic right now.

Than, since a free Sunday, me, HardKoh, Hwoo Lee and HY went to various places, the historical Jugra district. We went to Jugra Prison, Jugra Hill, Royal Mausoleum, Royal Palace, and many other places. Rest at home not even for a hour, another tea session with ZhanYi, so have to 哈啦几句 with them.

Hope this type of gathering would bring more and more friends who are out there and have yet to join us.

Graduation Ceremony @ Raffles City Singapore

Today is a memorable day, finally giving my parents a ‘四方帽’ to wear on their head. With that moment, I think I’ve achieve another moment in their life. With a degree cert on hand, I recall all the name of friends who had battled with me in getting it. In the most difficult timing, when almost starting the very first semester, I’ve being sacked from my previous job. Jobless for 3 months, with limited income, I faced troubles in starting my studies.

With friends like Joel Wong, Yuan Pin, Shawn, Lawrence and Justin, my buddies in class, I totally ‘cruise-through’ in completing all subjects in 3 years, whereas some ppl can completing it in 1.5 years. Lol… Those ppl are labeled as ‘Qiong-sters’

With this opportunity, I thank my partner in paying my first deposit and followed by my bro who contributing some of my sku fees, really really expensive de. Without them, after losing my previous job, I really earned not enough in paying it. Look at how pitiful am I at that moment. Without a strong guts and faith, I think i would quit my idea in completing it.

I really have to thank God for walking with me through the journey, from the idea of going to study, registration, schools starts, lessons, tests, exams, results, till this day, the convocation ceremony. He really fills with all I prefer in calling it ‘adventuring’ moments, cause I really have no idea how this journey, the journey in completing this course going to be. Trust Him whole heartedly, we will achieve our goals. Thank you papa and mama, ur son did it. Yippe.

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri

Just 20 minutes pass 12am, wanna wish all our friends, especially to my dearest doctors who supported in the medical book services. Thanks for all the supports given, will promised to work hard in giving a much better services.

May Peace be upon all of our in this unique planet – Earth. Though we’re from different backgrounds, different continents, but we’re all friends under one roof.

Yuppe! Selamat Hari Raya.